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Are didos allowed at jo clubs? I’m in Spokane wa and trying to find some b8s here. Will try Craigslist.
A basic rule of every real JO club is “Nothing goes inside anybody’s anything.” That would include dildos (duh). It’s not an issue of sex but of health. We don’t want to have to require hospital protocol to keep our members healthy and anything going in and inevitably out of a butt raises the risk level…
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I don’t do poppers. I’d rather cultivate my penis consciousness without drugs.
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Beauty of Arousal
I love the reality of the visibly aroused man. For me, it is the one essential ingredient, the one non-negotiable element of my own sexual engagement. I am not going to have sex with myself or anyone else if I can not clearly and unquestionably perceive excitement. And a boner isn’t enough for me. I’m…
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Addicted
I saw a poll posted on Bateworld tonight when I was cruising for bate fuel after dinner… Use of the word “addicted” I know some of us use the phrase “chronic addicted masturbator.” And I know some object to the idea that sex is addictive in any form, and I think most psychologists agree it…
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Flying, Bating, Sperming My last night at Healthy Friction in Palm Springs included about 90 minutes of intense edging and no ejaculation. The next morning, I attended to my penis during the flight home. (Source: https://player.vimeo.com/)
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A New Direction
I’ve had a thought… I’ve amassed a few followers and over the last couple of years gotten out of the habit of posting regularly. Out of laziness more than anything I’ve begun reblogging some posts. Though I always include some kind of extended commentary, I notice that it is my original work that gets the…
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Been here, done this and loved it, both in the center and the periphery. Look at the hard cocks, the natural hair, the unsculpted bodies, the focus on the action at hand rather than the camera. This is hot and real and one of the things makes my own life wonderful. We should do this…
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After 45 years of being a celibate I’d like more balance. A group like RCJ feels like it could potentially support wholeness. So – if I was to ask a question it would be how to participate in creating a group like this without being in the public eye or lying? btw, I couldn’t imagine jackin men I counseled and mentored… it would feel like incest.
I get it. There are two sex counselors I am aware of in Seattle who regularly refer clients to Rain City Jacks but have each told me personally that they can not attend for exactly the reasons you cite. It’s simply a sacrifice you take on as an ethical professional. I can only say that there…
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Do you know of any small groups into popper bating in Seattle?
I don’t know of any ongoing, organized small groups of bators of any kind. What I am aware of is small, informal gatherings happening privately. Those may or may not include poppers, but I assume a few do. The best ways I’m aware of to organize or find small groups is through craigslist and bateworld.…
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Hey Paul, Just found out about RCJ and I am entirely thrilled to try this and it has generated tons of questions, a lot of which you have answered here and elsewhere. Some things I have not found: Do you guys often have couples attend? Concerning the band system: if one guy is red and another green, is it a faux pa for the red guy to initiate on the green guy? It would seem to me to be an issue if they could not reciprocate. I will probably ask more but I did want to say thanks for a great blog
Numerous couples attend pretty much every Jacks gathering. All of them play at different levels, presumably according to agreements or just whatever works for them. There are couples who only attend together and others who trade off events and attend separately. Some arrive together and then separate to play with whoever they like before leaving…