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What does masturbation bring you that sex with a partner doesn’t?
masturbatorsanctum: As far as I am concerned, partnered sex and masturbation are complementary. In my view, both are not irreconcilable and certainly not in competition with one another. I need partnered sex for the shared emotions, the bonding, and obviously also for the joy of fucking. This said, when I have sex with another guy…
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I loved reading through your blog! Amazing insights for a man half your age to learn from. Thank you for sharing your experience! I wish I was down south more to join RCJ or that there was such a club up in BC for me to be a part of and to learn more.
I’m still bummed that Vancouver Jax folded after its brief run. You guys deserve to have your own community of bators to connect with. Until somebody puts that together again, you will always be welcome in Seattle.
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Love your blog, bate Brother. Hail Penis! Hope to see you on bateworld vid chat soon.
Thank you, brother. I do indeed feel a deep brotherhood with my fellow men as the result of decades of mutual masturbation with a vast array of different men. I feel that it’s opened me up to a more authentic, more human experience of myself and others. I’m grateful for that. I make no bones…
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Hey there man! I love the kind of stuff you’re doing in the blog, mad props! I’m also all about the bate and it’s amazing to see someone embracing the bate so passionately as you do! So I was wondering what is the proper strategy and etiquette to start a circlejerking group locally… the thing is, I can’t find a single JO club nearby to join but I really want to do it –but it’s real complicated to bring it up in conversation just casually. Alright, keep stroking!
Thank you for the generous words! I wouldn’t characterize myself as all about the bate, though. I’m just all about sexual joy and for me, that includes embracing all this fantastic sex I have with myself, and the vast opportunities for connection with my fellow man when penetration is taken out of the equation… but…
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i’m a bigger guy and i don’t have an enormous package, i would love to come experience at rcj but am nervous my body isn’t up to snuff, is it a friendly welcoming environment for someone like me?
I think that Rain City Jacks is a pretty friendly club, but I’m understandably biased. We have a number of bigger guys and most of us are actually of average endowment. I’ve had amazing, prolonged sessions with men at the club who had smaller than average penises. For me, it’s far more about the energy…
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Hi Paul, How often do you jack off?
If by “jack off” you mean masturbate solo to orgasm, about once a day. If I have sex with someone else—and I include mutual masturbation as sex—I may skip masturbating for a day beforehand to boost my libido and cum more, but I also masturbate twice on many days, more than compensating for the occasional day…
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Dream Men and Real Boys
It’s clear that I like images of hairy, macho guys. White guys with muscles and body hair and stiff, cut penises and I like to see them spend time masturbating, displaying their pleasure, getting lost and losing concern for how they sound or where the cum flies when they orgasm. But all of my life,…
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jjbabay: ?♂️ This works for me on many levels, but primarily in the natural joy exhibited. We can all see many different ways of expressing how we feel or the kind of impression we want to make when we expose our bate on the Internet. JJ is exhibiting joy here, love and pride and amazement…
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Hi! I wanted to know your thoughts about hosting a jack-off club in a hotel. Would the organizers need to get permission from the hotel management ahead of time? And how would they handle asking the attendees to chip in money for the room? I know that in many places it’s not feasible to host a jack-off club in a private home or a non-hotel public place. Just wondering what you thought about it. Thanks for your terrific blog.
Hey Cowboy, When I first started Rain City Jacks, I got a big suite in a local, mid-level hotel. I specified top floor and a corner room to maximize privacy. I organized the event through the Yahoo Group I set up to start the Jacks and I simply asked everyone to not be loud in the…