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Hi Paul, Have you ever thought of taking pictures or even filming one of your very hot JO group sessions? Many of us around the world would love to experience Rain City Jacks for ourselves and see the intensity of it!
I can’t tell you how many times I have looked around the playspace during an event and wanted to capture it for myself and for the world. The issue is the absolute confidentiality of our members’ identities. The majority of our members are concerned about a coworker, relative or possible future employer encountering pictures of…
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I’m planning to include a statement in my will, admitting that most of the times I was late for work, I was masturbating.
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masturbatorsanctum: May was masturbation month. As Charlie Glickman puts it : We could talk about the physical, psychological and emotional benefits to this, but the bottom line is, it feels good and doesn’t hurt anyone. It’s so incredibly common and yet it’s vilified.” As many researchers have shown over the last century, masturbation is healthy habit on many levels. But…
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Using Grindr for “just chat” is like going to a bathhouse to just wash your hands. Paul
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I love having guys cum all over me. Is the same true for you? Any idea why some of us love this experience?
I’m really not good with “why” questions. I always try to rework them into “how” questions but in this case, I’ll just answer the first part… OMG Yes! The same is very much true for me and I have no idea why. I love the sight and sensation of cum on my skin, and the…
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what do you think of jacking off in the sauna or steamroom at the gym? It seems like a big fantasy for lots of guys to get hard and jack off with other guys in these places, but since they’re public spaces, that kind of activity could offend others who use the same facilities.
I masturbate in the steam room and sauna with pretty much anyone who wants to join in. I’ve been doing that for many, many years. BUT… I also am sensitive to the rights of guys who just want to enjoy the heat without the distraction of boners. I am pretty brazen about masturbation. I don’t…
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May I just say that I admire your open nudity and I love your furry balls. 🙂
Yes. You may say that. I’m at the gym every morning, and I’m really struck by the different ways different men deal with being naked in the locker room. It speaks volumes about how they feel about their bodies, their sexuality, their penises… I have enormous admiration and respect for the straight guys who feel…
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Grateful
I’m deeply grateful to include regular social sex play in my life. I’m frequently amazed to live in a time and place where such a thing is possible… I don’t take it for granted.
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I am a bator
[You can file this one under “back to basics” or “duh.”] I am a bator. I am not a “model” bator. I am not a “pure” bator or an “addicted” or “compulsive” bator, but I am very much a bator. Here’s what I mean: I love to masturbate and I embrace masturbation as an important…
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Strangeness
I’m wondering if anybody genuinely feels like being at a JO club is not strange at all. I’ve been to hundreds of JO parties myself, and I don’t just play, I run the events, think about them, write about them… I am deep in the experience but there is always an awareness that this is…