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Examining the Pull of Group Masturbation Parties | VICE United States
Examining the Pull of Group Masturbation Parties | VICE United States A very good article on the phenomenon of JO clubs, with some nice perspective from an enthusiast in Australia. Unfortunately, this article does propagate the myth that HIV was responsible for JO clubs: “… Group masturbation clubs emerged in the 1980s, when public fear…
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Paul what happened to pdxjacks? If it’s closed I’d like help starting a new club in Portland.
Sadly, PDX Jacks folded after just one year of operation. It fell victim to the same flaw that has brought down dozens of JO clubs over the past three decades: Overdependence on a single individual who could not, for whatever reason, keep the project going. It’s really no different than any other kind of aborted…
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Armor
The young black man sat in my new member orientation session last night. His eyes did not connect very much. He was nervous, like everyone is at their first Jacks visit. He looked around frequently, not paying full attention, but I could tell he was listening. He was getting the message… I just don’t think…
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Rambling – December 23, 2013
I want to experiment more with abstinence, at least for more than 24 hours. I don’t just mean neglecting to masturbate, but deliberately, mindfully choosing not to masturbate. Currently, I average once a day, often showing up as two orgasms every other day. What I notice is I am less horny overall and I don’t…
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Happy to say I’ve been there and done that… but that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be there and do that again and again.
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‘Morning, Paul. My buddy and I have a sleepover once a week, which involves very satisfying mutual hand jobs. We haven’t gone past this–tried oral and can’t get into it. Slightly intrigued with butt play. Any suggestions about moving us along this path? We’re happy with things as they are, but there’s always room for growth.
I’m sorry it took me so long to respond. This question actually got me spinning for a while. I wasn’t sure how to respond and I wrote a few different responses, all of which I have abandoned. Here’s my short answer: Your query seems incomplete. You understate your interest in butt play as “slightly intrigued,”…
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I attended my first RCJ event last night and it was amazing. Thanks for creating a venue for such exploration and adventure. I will be back!
Thanks, Fuzz! I too had an amazing time and I really enjoyed running the new member orientation sessions, so I believe we met before the event even started. I had my eye on all of you new guys, as I always do and it looked like most of you were pretty well engaged in the…
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I’m Gettin’ Hitched!
Not that I need an excuse for slacking on my blog, but I’ve got a good one. For the last couple of months, I’ve been working on my wedding. In just nine days from the date of this post, I’ll be getting legally hitched to the guy I’ve been calling my husband for 19 years.…
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Hey Paul, a concern of mine centers around the gay and gray issue. I turn 65 this year single and having a difficult time connecting with guys. All the young and not so young “beautiful people” tend to shun us grays. Bars and social networking do not work well for me, and although I attend RCJ on a regular basis and enjoy my time there, it has not helped me much to make friends. Have you ever considered a non-sexual event for RCJ. Open to any and all ideas. Jerry
Hi Jerry, I love my club and I love my members of all ages. I’ve also seen a number of guys connect with others at the club and become partners, some disappearing from the events for months or years. It is possible to make more meaningful connections there, as it is anywhere, but I really…
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QPT
Your penis is with you all day. Forgotten, waiting, stuffed inside your pants while you go about the business of daily life and important matters. If you find some time for yourself, you might remember your penis and how much you like it. You might spend anywhere from 30 seconds to several hours giving it…