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A New Direction
I’ve had a thought… I’ve amassed a few followers and over the last couple of years gotten out of the habit of posting regularly. Out of laziness more than anything I’ve begun reblogging some posts. Though I always include some kind of extended commentary, I notice that it is my original work that gets the…
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Been here, done this and loved it, both in the center and the periphery. Look at the hard cocks, the natural hair, the unsculpted bodies, the focus on the action at hand rather than the camera. This is hot and real and one of the things makes my own life wonderful. We should do this…
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After 45 years of being a celibate I’d like more balance. A group like RCJ feels like it could potentially support wholeness. So – if I was to ask a question it would be how to participate in creating a group like this without being in the public eye or lying? btw, I couldn’t imagine jackin men I counseled and mentored… it would feel like incest.
I get it. There are two sex counselors I am aware of in Seattle who regularly refer clients to Rain City Jacks but have each told me personally that they can not attend for exactly the reasons you cite. It’s simply a sacrifice you take on as an ethical professional. I can only say that there…
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Do you know of any small groups into popper bating in Seattle?
I don’t know of any ongoing, organized small groups of bators of any kind. What I am aware of is small, informal gatherings happening privately. Those may or may not include poppers, but I assume a few do. The best ways I’m aware of to organize or find small groups is through craigslist and bateworld.…
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Hey Paul, Just found out about RCJ and I am entirely thrilled to try this and it has generated tons of questions, a lot of which you have answered here and elsewhere. Some things I have not found: Do you guys often have couples attend? Concerning the band system: if one guy is red and another green, is it a faux pa for the red guy to initiate on the green guy? It would seem to me to be an issue if they could not reciprocate. I will probably ask more but I did want to say thanks for a great blog
Numerous couples attend pretty much every Jacks gathering. All of them play at different levels, presumably according to agreements or just whatever works for them. There are couples who only attend together and others who trade off events and attend separately. Some arrive together and then separate to play with whoever they like before leaving…
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How is your recovery from surgery coming along? Any cool scars?
Thanks for asking and I’m sorry it took almost a year to respond! The masterful surgical scar from my hamstring surgery runs perfectly along the natural crease at the bottom of my left butt cheek. Unless I specifically point it out, nobody sees or notices it unless they’re closely examining my ass.
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Are poppers allowed at RCJ?
No. Popper use is counter to our no drugs policy, but it’s also a problem for men sensitive to aromas of all kinds. It’s not a judgement against poppers, just one of the many considerations that go into organizing healthy group sex.
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Can you post a video on techniques to masturbating , like different hand movements and what you can do to improve pleasure
Hi friend! That’s a great idea… but I try to stick to opinion and philosophy myself. For me, the blog is mainly about writing honestly about sex. There is an excellent blog I can recommend though. Masturbators’ Sanctum has a huge treasure chest of information about masturbation, as well as countless examples of techniques and…
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Hey there! I’m johnny! Would love to chat. I am coming to Seattle in September. Can we hang out?
Hi Johnny. Thanks for offering! I love hanging out and as hot as hooking up with strangers can be, I always need to see current photos first (including faces) to even consider it, and then I need to meet in a public place to get a sense of compatibility and safety. Hanging out 1-on-1 has…
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Hey man! I only recently came across “jack off clubs” and just wanted to make a few enquiries so who better to ask than the Godfather of RCJ. First of all, as a man in my 20s, I was wondering how many people on average usually attend these events around my age (18-25)? The second thing is, does the club permit the act of fingering one’s self? I’m sure, as you know, the stimulation of the prostate heightens orgasm greatly for most people. Thanks in advance!
Hi buddy. I don’t know if I ever answered this because I just saw it. Most men at JO clubs are around 45, but the range is all over the place and we have members as young as 20. There are always a small number of men in their twenties at every event, but as…