Read part 1 here. Monday, September 13, 2010 When I was 14, I toured with a swing choir to some central Illinois town to perform with some other youth chorale, and we were farmed out for housing. I shared a bed with some kid who kept going on and on about Mel Grant, one of…

At the club, we provide the iconic lube of the jacker, Albolene. It’s an oil-based, long-lasting lube for masturbation, or for barebacking your fluid-bonded, monogamous partner. When I bate at home, I use Stroke 29 or Gun Oil, or no lube at all depending on my mood. Stroke 29 is probably my favorite. You can…

This entry got a little out of control and ended up being way too long for one installment, so I’m going to break it up and give it to you piecemeal. Tune in tomorrow for the next exciting episode! Sunday, September 12, 2010 I don’t remember when I started fantasizing about jacking off with other…

Saturday, September 11, 2010 NOTE: This is a repost of yesterday’s entry. I learned that entering text in the tumblr iPhone app results in the wrong format… I also wanted to fix, edit, add links, etc… I just wrapped up my third annual teaching session at Gay City University. “JACKS: Exploring the JO Club Phenomenon”…

Friday, September 10, 2010 I’m not the only person who inhabits multiple realms. The design of our institutions encourages us to divide ourselves into different personas that are appropriate to the moment and the place and company. I have a hard time discussing my jack-off club with anyone at my corporate workplace, and I resist…

Wednesday, September 8, 2010 I may have over-promised when I committed to a blog entry a day… just a tad. But I am loving this process of developing a blog, learning what writing regularly feels like, finding an honest voice as a writer. So in the face of high-volume demands from the many realms of…

Sunday, September 5, 2010 I looked up from the fog of penis pleasure at one point during today’s event, during one of the few moments I was actually playing and not working, and I just saw these two loosely-connected groups of men about 20 feet away, about ten men altogether, and they were in various…

Thursday, September 2, 2010 Frequent Question Number 19: How many guys are usually at one of your parties? Answer: Usually somewhere between 50 and 75. The average these days is about 65 guys per event. Reaction: 65?! That’s a lot of guys! Typical Followup Question for Number 19: “Um… do you ever hold smaller events??”…

Tuesday, August 31, 2010 Every time I’ve asked, “How do you identify your sexuality?” I get roughly the same answer from the members of my jack-off club: 65% identify as gay 25% identify as bi 10% identify as straight I’ve asked this question many, many times over the past five years and the percentages always…