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‘Morning, Paul. My buddy and I have a sleepover once a week, which involves very satisfying mutual hand jobs. We haven’t gone past this–tried oral and can’t get into it. Slightly intrigued with butt play. Any suggestions about moving us along this path? We’re happy with things as they are, but there’s always room for growth.
I’m sorry it took me so long to respond. This question actually got me spinning for a while. I wasn’t sure how to respond and I wrote a few different responses, all of which I have abandoned. Here’s my short answer: Your query seems incomplete. You understate your interest in butt play as “slightly intrigued,”…
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I attended my first RCJ event last night and it was amazing. Thanks for creating a venue for such exploration and adventure. I will be back!
Thanks, Fuzz! I too had an amazing time and I really enjoyed running the new member orientation sessions, so I believe we met before the event even started. I had my eye on all of you new guys, as I always do and it looked like most of you were pretty well engaged in the…
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I’m Gettin’ Hitched!
Not that I need an excuse for slacking on my blog, but I’ve got a good one. For the last couple of months, I’ve been working on my wedding. In just nine days from the date of this post, I’ll be getting legally hitched to the guy I’ve been calling my husband for 19 years.…
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Hey Paul, a concern of mine centers around the gay and gray issue. I turn 65 this year single and having a difficult time connecting with guys. All the young and not so young “beautiful people” tend to shun us grays. Bars and social networking do not work well for me, and although I attend RCJ on a regular basis and enjoy my time there, it has not helped me much to make friends. Have you ever considered a non-sexual event for RCJ. Open to any and all ideas. Jerry
Hi Jerry, I love my club and I love my members of all ages. I’ve also seen a number of guys connect with others at the club and become partners, some disappearing from the events for months or years. It is possible to make more meaningful connections there, as it is anywhere, but I really…
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QPT
Your penis is with you all day. Forgotten, waiting, stuffed inside your pants while you go about the business of daily life and important matters. If you find some time for yourself, you might remember your penis and how much you like it. You might spend anywhere from 30 seconds to several hours giving it…
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Hi Paul, Have you ever thought of taking pictures or even filming one of your very hot JO group sessions? Many of us around the world would love to experience Rain City Jacks for ourselves and see the intensity of it!
I can’t tell you how many times I have looked around the playspace during an event and wanted to capture it for myself and for the world. The issue is the absolute confidentiality of our members’ identities. The majority of our members are concerned about a coworker, relative or possible future employer encountering pictures of…
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I’m planning to include a statement in my will, admitting that most of the times I was late for work, I was masturbating.
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masturbatorsanctum: May was masturbation month. As Charlie Glickman puts it : We could talk about the physical, psychological and emotional benefits to this, but the bottom line is, it feels good and doesn’t hurt anyone. It’s so incredibly common and yet it’s vilified.” As many researchers have shown over the last century, masturbation is healthy habit on many levels. But…
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Using Grindr for “just chat” is like going to a bathhouse to just wash your hands. Paul
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I love having guys cum all over me. Is the same true for you? Any idea why some of us love this experience?
I’m really not good with “why” questions. I always try to rework them into “how” questions but in this case, I’ll just answer the first part… OMG Yes! The same is very much true for me and I have no idea why. I love the sight and sensation of cum on my skin, and the…