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Shaved Dick Diary
In a couple of weeks, I’m going in for some hip surgery. It’s not major surgery and not really what I’m writing about today. You see, in the lead-up to the surgery, I had to get an MRI of my hip… with contrast. Contrast means they had to inject some dye into the hip before…
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The Dawn of the Solosexual
The Dawn of the Solosexual This primer on solo culture is from April. I’m glad to see this previously secretive and insulated identity getting a little cred out in the world.
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masturbatorsanctum: While the quote above may be a bit harsh, I think it has a good bit of truth. The most homophobic people I’ve met (both men and women) where the people the most insecure of their own sexuality. Frail sexual identities often hide themselves in over sexualized role play. Hence homophobia and misogyny tending…
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planetbuddha: Send it out with a blast.
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Control/Release
My masturbation is an exercise in release. I’m not referring here to orgasm and ejaculation, but releasing the ever-present control of civilized daily life and routine desexualization we all practice so constantly we can’t even see it anymore. I get up in the morning and get ready to go to the gym, a very “straight” gym…
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Guess who the leaker is?
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Big Tent
One of my go-to sex sites is bateworld.com. It’s a masturbation-centric zone focused on diverse men, penis and all the tangential elements of masturbation. It is a very specific online culture I mostly enjoy and has become a frequent resource for my own self-love experience. It adds a social aspect through sharing of the masturbation…
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This Is Why I Jerk Off at the Gym (Slightly NSFW)
This Is Why I Jerk Off at the Gym (Slightly NSFW) I did not write this. I don’t live in San Francisco. I just liked the article and agree with its POV and its overall message. It’s short. Read it, enjoy and offer your own experience in the comments below. —Paul It’s a Tuesday. I’m…
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Bator Selfwe
Bator Selfwe I don’t normally post pics of pro porn actors (not knowingly, anyway) but this shot has everything I love: Men, mutual masturbation, boners, smiles and unabashed pleasure. Just imagine this is you and a good friend relaxing together naked, sharing penis pleasure and feeling unconditionally good, unwaveringly shameless. “Let’s take a Selfie Selfie…
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hey man, i am a bigtime exhibitionist, solosexual. Lately I’ve dabble in a little bit of narcissism. I’M wondering if at some event, i started getting off onmyself, say in a mirror, or in front of some guys, if this would be acceptable or if people would laugh at me or something negative. For the record, I am being serious, and I DO FIND showing off being watched a major dick hardener. Naked jake
What you describe is completely acceptable and appropriate for any JO club I’ve ever been to. Your challenge would be just being clear about boundaries, since the main play at RCJ is mutual masturbation. We do help guys who want to stay solo by offering our “band system.” It includes a red band anyone may wear…