Hi buddy. I don’t know if I ever answered this because I just saw it.
Most men at JO clubs are around 45, but the range is all over the place and we have members as young as 20. There are always a small number of men in their twenties at every event, but as I said, they’re a minority. Some just play with other guys their own age, some play with everybody and some specifically like certain types of guys. In other words, they’re like everyone else! 🙂
We don’t permit any kind of anal contact. And I agree that it feels amazingly good. If I’m masturbating and a buddy just lightly touches my hole, it sends instant waves of pleasure through my penis and can make me cum. The reason it’s not permitted is because it’s group sex and this is the easiest way to spread certain easy-to-share diseases to lots of men.