I almost never agree with anyone 100% of the time, and while I have my quibbles with one tiny phrase in this piece, I think its fundamental point is spot-fucking-on.

Having met and masturbated with hundreds of men in socially sexual situations (JO clubs) I am completely on board with the understanding that sexual experiences between men do not necessarily equal gay/bi sexual orientation. I believe in my core that many—not all, certainly, but many—of the men with whom I have shared penis pleasure who also identify as straight or “mostly” straight are telling the truth. When I say I have enjoyed satisfying sex with numerous straight men, I am telling you the truth.

To be fair, I didn’t put my penis inside any of them, but if you’re familiar with me at all you should know that penetration’s not a reasonable litmus test for “sex” in my experience. 

This is yet another great post from my favorite sex blogger, Tyler. Read it now and then go read more of his blog. Tyler is super-smart, super-sexy and has both his head and heart in the right places. Also, you’ll get boners.

For the insatiably curious, my tiny, personal quibble is his comment about the “… desensitized circumcised penis desperately trying to reach climax.” That took me aback as I’m not accustomed to this sort of thing from this particular blogger. I myself have plenty of personal preferences for a numerous sexual details, but I would never put down the ones I don’t prefer. That tidbit was rude and “foreskinist,” if I may coin a term. There’s room for all of us, Tyler, with and without foreskin.