Not really a question, but I just want to say I stumbled across your tumblr and just read pages and pages of it. I fucking love it. I love how sex positive and enthusiastic you are about penis and how you aren’t shy to call people out on holding onto their shame. If every guy in the world had your attitude, there would be so much positive, electric sexual energy flowing through men. It would just feed on itself and we’d be living in a sexual nirvana. Keep up the great work, buddy!


Thank you so much for your kind words! I am grateful and happy to share my perspective with anyone who gets something out of it… I will only add that my focus may be on men, because that is the sexual arena in which I play, but I want all people to live free from the incredible bullshit humanity carries about sex. I think it is choking us and literally killing us.

I see much of the religious violence in the world proceeding directly out of intense sexual repression. Religions systematically put our sexuality under a heavy yoke of control and judgement and have created a world of billions of humans condemning themselves for their most innate, most joyous impulses. Women need to be freed to fully embrace and celebrate the sexual energy that flows through all of us just as much as men do. It’s at the core of being human.

So if my minute insights move the scales just a little toward sexual joy and away from sexual shame, I’m wildly happy for my meager contribution.


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